MichelleInNewYork wrote:
Boston, I don't think you have to accept that you are treated that way, but perhaps you can do things for yourself that make you feel better other than turning to food for therapy?

AND...

What I've learned is that it's not that I'm more emotional, it's that I'm not using food to stifle those feelings, and therefor the emotion comes out and is felt so much more strongly. And sometimes that's the exact opposite of what we want to have happen.

Boston...I love what Michelle said here! I don't know the whole story, but it doesn't sound pretty. Nobody deserves to be "shut out" the way you are when your dh refuses to have a conversation with you. I would do anything to have that relatioship that you long for also. I'm taking steps...

Michelle...I'm going to give myself my own little spa treatment thanks to you. I think we should do this often. Great idea!


Cindy


"All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us"...Gandalf