Hi Cindy,
Hope all goes well with you and soon to be ex-Dh on the divorce. It's always best NOT to include lawyers. I have had my share, three to be exact in hiring a lawyer. Not for the same topic as you. And all three turned out bad. My Dh calls them legal thiefs. Unfortunately, we have found that to be true. ( Not intended to offend any one on this board that may be or was an Attorney.) Just speaking from personal experience is all.

At the present time I am doing laundry. Laundry doesn't bother me to do. I have a ton of house work to do. Waiting on Dh to make a decision on something today. So I can proceed with what I want to do.

I will stop back later and check on my friends,
Enjoy your day!
Karrie